Some people would look at this title and assume that I hate men or that I am crazy or something like that. Well, none of the 2. In fact I love men, and I respect them ( well those who deem it fit to respect themselves). I was listening to the radio 2 days ago while driving home from school, and the topic was based on why so many mariages fail and why some dont work. Dont get me wrong, I am not saying that a failure of a marriage is the man's fault, it is is both parties fault (in some cases).
I have noticed ( especially with the men) that when most of them get married, they tend to still live in their "boyhood" lifestyle.
1. Some still act like they are stil single and forget that their status has changed. They still want to hang with the boys every weekend ( I mean friday -Sunday) forgetting that they have a wife and maybe a kid at home. Im not against hanging out with the boys, they can do that but if it was every weekend when they were single, it should be once a month of twice a month and spend time with the wife.
2. Guys once you are married, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY OFF THE MARKET!!!!!! And I mean OFF..... No need to be chasing after single women. You made your choice in picking your woman, so stick to her and make her your number one.
Dont go for the single girls out there and give them false hopes, because if you love your woman (for you to marry her) you would never leave her for one girl you just met.
3. Please, WHERE YOUR WEDDING RING... You send out the wrong message especially to vulnerable young women.
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